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Bogus lesbians 'causing emotional damage'

14:00 AEST Mon Oct 13 2008
By Matt Bachl, ninemsn
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Celebrity lesbian flings are being blamed for the surge of 'fauxmosexuals'.
Celebrity lesbian flings, like the one between MTV host Ruby Rose and the Veronicas Jess Origliasso, are being blamed for the surge of 'fauxmosexuals'.
Anne Heche dumped talk-show host Ellen DeGeneres for a man in 2000. (AAP)
Anne Heche dumped talk-show host Ellen DeGeneres for a man in 2000. (AAP)
Anne Heche dumped talk-show host Ellen DeGeneres for a man in 2000. (AAP)
Lindsay Lohan and Samantha Ronson recently 'came out' about their relationship.

The boom in women pretending to be lesbians to attract attention is leaving a trail of emotional destruction, according to a social commentator.

Several high-profile relationships involving "real lesbians" and women more often linked to men — such as MTV's Ruby Rose and Jess Origliasso, and Samantha Ronson and Lindsay Lohan — have reportedly encouraged a wave of "fauxmosexuals" on the real life party circuit.

PHOTOS: Invasion of the faux lesbians

Gay social commentator Tim Duggan has described the "lesbian trend" as a fad which is actually doing "more damage than good".

"Experimentation is healthy — what it leads to can sometimes be a great thing, but you need to wonder what effect [fake lesbians] are having on women," said Mr Duggan, co-founder of gay and lesbian site SameSame.

"Women who pretend to be lesbians do it to titillate men.

"The current trend of gay acceptance is a Trojan horse: on the surface it's 'wow, isn’t it great, it's being talked about', but it's not real acceptance — it's a titillating, easy-on-the-eyes acceptance."

Online gay forums are abuzz with talk of the "bogus lesbian" craze, with some questioning whether the trend is putting real homosexuals at risk.

"Where do these fauxmosexual fads leave queer teens once they're packed away in the cupboard (with other fads)?," user timbo84 wrote.

"The statistic of 30 percent of teen suicides in the US being gay or lesbian teens is very distressing.

"Here's hoping pop culture moves on to focus on people like Ellen and Ian McKellen and not those who are just 'out' to make a buck!"

Mr Duggan said the impact of "celesbians" — stars who use alternative lifestyles as marketing ploys — is something which can no longer be ignored.

"When straight celebrities like Katy Perry come out and sing about kissing girls and liking it, you have to wonder what impact that has on the playground," he said.

Perry rocketed to the top of the singles chart, both locally and overseas, after her song "I Kissed A Girl" became a worldwide smash.

MTV VJ Ruby Rose was seen locking lips with Veronicas twin Jess Origliasso at a Sydney nightclub in March.

Rose, 22, later stressed the two were "just friends" during a tell-all interview where she revealed she came out when was just 12 years old.

Earlier this month, Rose was spotted kissing Australia's Next Top Model contestant Samantha Downie at a Rolling Stone magazine party.

 
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When will people stop feeling the need to label every person or thing that is 'different' as this or that? We're all human beings first and foremost and what we do in our personal lives is of no concern to anyone else. As long as the media give the spotlight to these sad celebrities who crave the attention for personal gain, silly fads like this and the labels that go with them, will continue.
You am so right whatever!Let's! As for the celebrity faux *** thing....the world needs more kissin', no matter who's doin it to who!
Karina, I can't believe how ignorant you are!!!! Every day is non-gay day. Every child is raised with the happy ending being boy meets girl, they get married and have kids and live happily ever after. Gays and lesbians cannot live this ideal and therefore need to define their own identity lest they sucumb to the self-hatred and internalised homophobia that is responsible for such a high gay and lesbian suicide rate. Really, Karina, expand your horizons and try and put yourself in someone else's shoe - if that's possible!!!!
I support gay marriages if both chicks are hot.
this article makes the assumption that these women are pretending to be gay, it could be that they are bi, or perhaps they might be confused and trying out their sexuality. People try out people in hetro relationships, e.g. they are with different types of personalities, different races, blondes and then a brunette, yet if people go from male to female to male etc why do people assume they are fake? Also remember some women have had terrible things happen at the hands of men, for instance I always was attracted to men, but I've found so many men selfish and bad in bed, that I am thinking of trying a woman, because I'd like gentleness and foreplay but difficult to find this with a man, so I figure with women it would all be foreplay! If men were less selfish in bed perhaps women like myself wouldn't be considering going with other women. Is it just me, or do other women on this blog feel the same about men being selfish in bed, also anyone tried men and women who is better in bed?
I'm wondering why I'm writing to reply to this story. I thought there were actually more important issues out there like, oh I don't know, the collapse of the financial world. Let's put things in perspective. I like the ninemsn website because it usually has some interesting and intelligent stories. How did this one slip through?
Well, this happens everywhere because we have less men nowadays. Thats the reality.
Darling..Honey.. What ever! Grow up! Sex sells and what sells quicker than hot cakes ( or hot pants ) "lezbosex" fake or not - who looks at it ... girls still waiting for puberty to kick in, *** still trying to "pull the real thing", gay guys still wishing they could...come on .. and "come on!" Get real people...who in the real world would be so "FAUX 'PA'"
How many stupid females do we see in clubs pretending to get into each other all for the attention of men. If you cant get attention from men by being yourself then maybe you really are not good enough... and neither is the man youre trying to attract. Most of the time if you got given the opportunity sober, you wouldnt take it up... Grow up and get a life...
I agree that celebrities shouldn't go around saying they are gay if they're not. As it's dishonest and clearly they just want their 5 minutes of fame. But really who cares? let them do what they want they only hurting themselves.

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